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The Traditional Honeymoon: Planning the European Adventure

7 Aug

Readers, it’s been a while…


But lately, I’ve been thinking about wedding traditions past and present. One that I would love to revisit is the concept of the honeymoon. Apparently, when the tradition began generations ago it was a way to visit all of the far-flung relatives of the bride and groom who couldn’t make it to the wedding.

It would be great to re-imagine this tradition for couples who’ve already gotten married and maybe have a child they would love to present to family. This kind of trip could be a great mix of staying with family and/or any combination of hotels, bed and breakfasts, and/or rental apartments.

My husband and I have been talking about this idea constantly and we’ve settled on a European tour- it could easily be an extremely expensive trip for us; however, having family in France, Belgium, and England along with some friends in Germany make this a perfect choice!

Even though it’s not the most romantic, secluded journey it would certainly be an interesting one- experiencing Europe from a decidedly Congolese and Francophone point of view and learning more about cousins, aunts, and uncles – some who I haven’t seen in over twenty years. It is also a time to reflect- on a hazy time I barely remember, when my mother packed up my sister and I, taking us first to the Congo where we spent lazy days going to market on my aunt’s back and watching the red disk of the sun dip into the horizon. Then our next destination was Belgium with its tiny compact streets and french fries that you dip in mayonnaise. Then to Paris, which we visited a few years ago but can’t get enough of with possible side trips to the Loire Valley, or Provence, or the quiet Germanic romance of Strasbourg where my father saw his first westerns and my aunts attended school. I imagine myself with a notebook in hand while my husband pushes the stroller, working on the novel based on my family’s history.

Destination: England, France, and possibly Germany or Switzerland


Dreaming About a Loire Valley getaway…

10 Jan

{images via backroads.com, art.com, bugbog.com, gettyimages.com, grandetapes.fr, loire-valley.tours.com, vogue.com}

This weekend, I’m staying in and away from the cold wind and snow. Instead of going out, I’ve been searching online for my next big getaway (I know, I know, not this year). Somewhere along the way, I have fallen in love with the Loire Valley in France. Nothing but castles, fresh fruit and vegetable stands, biking, sunflowers, and lots and lots of wine.

Mouline Bregeon: http://www.moulinbregeon.com/

Moulin Bregeon via http://www.moulinbregeon.com

This is a converted windmill where you can celebrate a special anniversary or just come to contemplate and be alone- there are special cooking classes that I definitely want to take and absolutely amazing food if I just want to eat. Check out the website above! You’ll fall in love!